Episode 2

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11th Nov 2024

Episode 2: Relationships in Transition: Redefining Connections

Relationships in Transition: Redefining Connections


Episode Overview

In this raw and insightful episode of Man in the Middle Show, hosts Kevin Rogers and Joe DiRoma dive deep into the complexities of relationships during midlife transitions. They explore the emotional layers and nuanced choices that arise when long-term relationships evolve, particularly in midlife. This episode is a compelling listen for any man navigating shifts in personal connections, seeking a balanced approach to self-discovery, and finding purpose beyond traditional roles.

Why You Should Listen

Kevin and Joe bring both personal experience and philosophical insight to help men facing relationship struggles, professional crossroads, or personal growth challenges. With humor and wisdom, they unpack how to manage internal conflicts, engage in healthy self-assessment, and navigate new paths with resilience and clarity.

Key Quotes

“The only way out of the darkness is through self-acceptance. Without it, there is no psychological healing.” – Kevin

“In life, you’re constantly challenged to find balance – between self-responsibility and understanding, between connection and independence.” – Joe

“Accepting that life could be radically different from what you expected is the first step toward true growth.” – Kevin

Key Takeaways

Self-Acceptance: Embracing your true self is crucial for both psychological healing and meaningful personal growth.

Mentorship: Trusted mentors can provide much-needed guidance, support, and perspective during challenging life phases.

Self-Reflection: Regular self-assessment and open dialogue with others help in navigating midlife transitions.

Empathy vs. Accountability: Knowing when to offer understanding and when to encourage responsibility is key to strong leadership and personal relationships.

Resources Mentioned

The Middle Passage: From Misery to Meaning in Midlife by James Hollis – An influential book for those navigating midlife crises.

Enneagram Types: A reference to Kevin and Joe's Enneagram discussion on personality types, useful for self-reflection and understanding interpersonal dynamics.

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About the Podcast

Man in the Middle Show w/ Kevin & Joe
Man in the Middle Show with Kevin & Joe

Are you a middle-aged man feeling trapped in your life? Stuck in a relationship, career, health situation, or financial rut that leaves you unfulfilled? Do you find yourself asking, "Is this it? Is it me? Is there more?"

You're not alone, and the Man in the Middle Show is here to prove it.

Join Kevin and Joe, two regular guys living in the "middle", as they dive deep into the challenges, triumphs, and existential questions that plague men in midlife. This isn't your typical self-help podcast – it's a raw, honest conversation between friends who've been there, done that, and are still figuring it out.

Meet Your Hosts:

Kevin at 54, he's a bald, bionic entrepreneur with a metal heart valve and 20 years in the "bonus round" of life. A former stand-up comic turned business owner, Kevin's journey includes:
- 25 years of marriage
- Raising two newly adult children
- A near-death experience and open-heart surgery at 35
- Navigating major career shifts and life transitions

Joe is The 42-year-old "regular guy" with an extraordinary story:
- 15 years sober after a 13-year battle with addiction
- High school dropout turned successful restaurant industry leader and now COO in digital marketing
- Father to a teenager and expecting a newborn (talk about a midlife shake-up!)
- Proof that it's never too late to turn your life around

Why Listen?

Real Talk, No BS... Kevin and Joe aren't therapists or gurus – they're guys just like you, sharing their experiences and struggles without filters.

You're Not Alone! Discover that those feelings of emptiness, confusion, and restlessness are normal and part of the midlife journey for many men.

Diverse Perspectives are critical. With their vastly different backgrounds and life experiences, Kevin and Joe offer unique insights into common midlife challenges.

Inspiration to Ask Bigger Questions. Instead of easy answers, you'll be motivated to dig deeper and rediscover what truly matters to you.

A Safe Space for Men. Finally, a place where you can hear open, honest discussions about the topics men often feel they can't talk about.

Practical Wisdom. Learn from the hosts' successes and failures as they navigate relationships, career transitions, health scares, and major life changes.

Finally... some Humor and Heart. Expect laughs alongside the deep stuff – because sometimes, you've got to find the funny in life's challenges.

The Man in the Middle Show isn't about having it all figured out. It's about embracing the messy middle, finding meaning in the struggle, and realizing that your best years might still be ahead of you.

Whether you're feeling lost, looking for a change, or just want to hear from guys who get it, Kevin and Joe are here to bring you into the middle of the conversation. You're not above, you're not below – you're right there with them, part of a community of men facing midlife head-on.

Tune in and discover:
- Strategies for reigniting passion in your relationships and career
- How to navigate major life transitions with grace (or at least a sense of humor)
- Ways to redefine success and fulfillment on your own terms
- The power of vulnerability and authentic male friendships
- Tools for managing stress, health concerns, and the infamous midlife crisis

Don't let society tell you how to age or what your life should look like. Join Kevin, Joe, and a growing tribe of men who are rewriting the rules of midlife, one honest conversation at a time.

Subscribe to the Man in the Middle Show w/ Kevin & Joe because midlife doesn't have to be a crisis. It can be your awakening.

New episodes drop weekly. Available wherever you get your podcasts.

Remember... You're not stuck. You're not alone. And there's definitely more to life – let's find it together.

About your host

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